Aïsha de Barros Lopes

Certified Somatic Sexologist | Melbourne - Online & International

Embodied Sexuality & Relationship Coaching for Individuals and Couples

Professional, Evidence-Informed Somatic Sexology

Somatic Sexology is a body-based approach that integrates embodiment, nervous system regulation and relational attunement. Rather than analysing sexuality through the mind, we work directly with the body.

Somatic Sexology is evidence-informed and trauma-aware. It provides tools to develop:

  • Enhanced embodied sexual awareness, supporting pleasure and self-connection

  • Nervous system regulation to support arousal, desire and relational presence

  • Deepened relational attunement for more fulfilling connection in partnerships or individual development.

Sessions may include guided somatic practices, movement, breath, touch (therapeutic and consent-based), and relational inquiry, conducted in a contained and professional framework.

Who I Work With

I work with individuals and couples who are seeking:

  • More depth, integrity and aliveness in their sexuality

  • Enhanced relational connection and presence

  • Support navigating desire discrepency, shame, relational distance or major life transitions

  • A more embodied way of living

Many of my clients are professionals, parents or people navigating transition.

Online Somatic Sexology (Australia & International)

All sexology sessions are conducted online via secure video platform.

Online somatic work remains deeply embodied. Through guided awareness, responsive practice and clear containment, we cultivate presence and relational capacity and personal insight, regardless of location.

I work with clients across Australia and Internationally.

In-Person Massage & Bodywork

In-person sessions are available in Melbourne for Lomi Lomi and Womb Massage.

These sessions are therapeutic, non-erotic modalities, grounded in:

  • Consent and clear professional boundaries

  • Nervous system awareness

  • Somatic integration techniques

Available exclusively in Melbourne.

  • Aïsha was very attentive and accomodating during our session. I felt heard and at ease and she was very responsive to my needs. I can also tell that she is very present and in the moment which is key to a good therapist.

    — Tim

  • Aïsha has such a beautiful and caring energy which she carries through her practice. Her space is warm and nurturing and she will make you feel right at home.

    — India

  • Aïsha creates such a warm, supportive, nurturing and loving space. I saw Aïsha for a womb massage to assist me in working through some stored emotions and pain. Aïsha thoroughly explained to me what to expect and then took me on the most beautiful journey to my womb space. The experience was deeply relaxing and grounding. I left feeling a deep state of love and gratitude for myself as a woman and for the acknowledgement, acceptance and healing that I had received.

    — Mia-Rose

  • From the very beginning, Aïsha created a safe, welcoming space, free of judgment, where I felt completely at ease. With her warmth and genuine presence, I was able to connect deeply with my body.

    — Abbey

  • Beautiful incredible experience. Healing on many levels. I truly cannot recommend enough.

    — M K

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