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View fullsize Read that again. #nervoussystemregulation #somaticawareness #bodybasedtherapy #somaticsexology
View fullsize We do not need more ideal versions of sxx. As sxx practitioners and educators, our work is not to give people another image to aspire to but rather, it is to help them hear themselves again. So they are able to notice the subtle sensations of their
View fullsize Have you ever found yourself thinking: I don't have a real reason for this. I am probably fine. This kind of work is for people who really need it. That thought is common. And it keeps a lot of people from something that might genuinely matter to t
View fullsize I want you to know that I do not come to this work from a place of having perfected sxx, intimacy, or embodiment. I do not believe that is the point. To me, sxx is not something we arrive at. It is a continually unfolding relationship with ourselve
View fullsize It can be difficult to talk about sxx. Difficult with friends, with partners, even with a practitioner whose role is to support those conversations. Why wouldn't it be? Sxx sits at the intersection of culture, religion, family, politics and power
View fullsize There is a lot of messaging around sxx, intimacy, and pleasure. More openness. More confidence. More aliveness. More expression. While some of it can be supportive, I wonder what it does to the nervous system when all that messaging starts to feel
View fullsize I want this to be a place of curiosity and openness around somatic sxxology and my work more generally. If something here resonates or raises questions, you are welcome to reach out via the contact form on my website (link in bio).
View fullsize I have been exploring the theme of “othering” across both my somatic sexology work and my previous experience in community organising. It has been a live inquiry for me, particularly in how it shows up in the way we structure change and

Aïsha de Barros Lopes

Certified Somatic Sexologist supporting individuals and couples to reclaim embodied sexual agency. Melbourne, Australia · Online across Australia.

I acknowledge the Boonwurrung People of the Kulin Nation as the Traditional Custodians of the land on which my work takes place. I pay my respects to Elders past and present.

I recognise that sovereignty has not been ceded, and that this land holds stories, lore and wisdom far older than any system I work within. May this practice be carried out with humility, care and responsibility, and in respect of the ongoing presence, resilience and leadership of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples.

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