— INDIVIUAL WORK · DIRECT SUPPORT
Embodied work with yourself, one to one.
One-to-one somatic sexology for shutdown, disconnection, performance, and overwhelm, met at the level of the body, not just the story you tell about it. Melbourne or online across Australia.
— WHAT THIS WORK IS
Many people learn to navigate sex and intimacy intellectually while staying disconnected from their body, their desire, their pleasure, or their needs. Over time, that shapes how you experience intimacy, arousal, boundaries, and connection.
This work brings attention back to lived, embodied experience — sensation, nervous system response, relational patterns, and pleasure — so presence becomes available to you, instead of something you have to work at.
— YOU MAY BE EXPERIENCING
Disconnection from sex, pleasure, or your body
Shame, anxiety, or inhibition around sexuality
Desire discrepancy within a relationship
Difficulty with intimacy, communication, or boundaries
Trouble accessing arousal, pleasure, or embodiment
Sexual function concerns, including vaginismus or erectile difficulty
Shifting experiences of sexuality through life transitions
Where it's useful, I also support wrap-around care and referrals to pelvic health physiotherapists, relationship counsellors, and other allied practitioners, as part of a wider circle of support.
— HOW WE BEGIN
All work begins with a short discovery call.
This is a conversation to understand what’s present in your experience, what you are wanting support with, and whether this work is a useful fit.
There is no pressure to decide anything in advance of that conversation.
— DEPTH OF PRACTICE
Sessions are held within containers of depth.
These containers hold continuity over time so the work can stay close to lived experience and deepen rather than reset each session.
They are not programs or packages to complete. They are ways of structuring ongoing embodied work so that what emerges in your experience of sex and intimacy can be worked with over time, rather than in isolation.
Each container is built from ongoing sessions, held within a clear arc of focus.
Threshold
3 WEEKS
The beginning. We start with what is happening in your experience, and slow things enough that you can stay with it rather than move into managing or explaining it.
$780
Foundation
6 WEEKS
Ongoing work with lived experience. Working with what arises in your experience of sex and intimacy, through direct engagement and practices that continue between sessions.
$1,800
Integration
12 WEEKS
The full arc. Integration and expansion into pleasure, where what we have worked with begins to move into your relationships and daily life, and becomes how you relate.
$3,200
On investment: Each container is composed of ongoing 90-minute sessions, held consistently over the duration of the work.
Payment plans are available for longer containers, to support accessibility over time and allow the work to be held with continuity rather than interruption.
— GETTING STARTED
What happens after you reach out
Free discovery call
A short, no-pressure conversation to see if this feels like the right fit, and to answer any questions you have.
Choose your container
If we decide to work together, we select a container of depth that matches the level of continuity and support you’re wanting at this time.
Begin the work
We begin working directly with what is present in your experience, and the container holds continuity over time so the work can deepen rather than reset.
— BEGIN
Ready to begin this work?
A free discovery call offers a simple point of contact. An initial conversation to see whether this work is appropriate.