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Aïsha de Barros Lopes

Certified Somatic Sexologist helping individuals and couples to reclaim their embodied erotic power.

493 Centre Road, Bentleigh VIC 3204, Australia · Online across Australia.

I acknowledge the Boonwurrung People of the Kulin Nation as the Traditional Custodians of the land on which my work takes place. I pay my respects to Elders past and present.

I recognise that sovereignty has not been ceded, and that this land holds stories, lore and wisdom far older than any system I work within. May this practice be carried out with humility, care and responsibility, and in respect of the ongoing presence, resilience and leadership of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples.

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