Somatic Sexology Online | Bodywork in Melbourne

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Online Somatic Sexology

Somatic Sexology is a body-based approach to working with challenges around sex and intimacy. Sessions are conducted online and integrate body awareness, nervous system regulation and relational inquiry.

This work is for individuals and couples who want to reconnect with their bodies and engage with sex and intimacy. Sessions are co-created and responsive, addressing arousal, belief systems, pleasure, desire, shame, communication, boundaries, and embodied presence.

Who This is For

This work may be appropriate if you:

  • Struggle to communicate desire or boundaries

  • Experience shame or disconnection around sexuality

  • Notice desire discrepancy in your relationship

  • Feel disconnected from your body

  • Experience sexual function challenges such as vaginsmus or erectile dysfunction

Session Structure

Sessions are conducted via secure video platform.

Each session includes guided somatic practice, inquiry and integration. The session may involve breath, movement, touch, awareness practices and relational dialogue.

Aïsha de Barros Lopes, Certified Somatic Sex Coach guiding clients through embodied awareness.

Bodywork

In-person bodywork sessions in Melbourne are available for Lomi Lomi Massage and Womb Massage.

These sessions are non-erotic massages that support body awareness and nervous system regulation.

Bodywork is available exclusively in Melbourne.

Booking and Practical Information

Session length, pricing and availability are outlined below.
To support continuity and integration, discounted rates are available for multi-session bookings.
New clients are offered 10% off their first session
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  • If you are curious about somatic coaching and how it might support you, this complimentary call is a space for connection, clarity and orientation. We will explore what you want to address, how I work, and whether this feels like the right fit.

  • This online session is an intentional, held space to explore challenges around sexuality, intimacy, pleasure and embodiment. Using somatic practices, experiential processes and guided inquiry, we cultivate awareness, curiosity and choice in your body’s experience.

    You will walk away with practical insights, clarity about what you want and a felt sense of agency in your body.

    Investment: $140 (60 mins) or $170 (90mins)

  • These online sessions support both partners to attune to their bodies, uncover patterned ways of relating and bring embodied curiosity to their shared experiences of intimacy and connection. The focus is on mutual understanding, communication and relational agency.

    Investment: $170 (60 mins) or $200 (90 mins)

  • In person in Melbourne, I offer bodywork sessions designed to invite embodied awareness, nervous system regulation and self‑connection. Through Lomi Lomi and womb massage, we can release tension, support emotional processing and help you feel into your body in a way that nurtures presence and ease.

    Sessions take place in a private, intentional space within my home. The environment is clean, safe, and held with care, though it is a lived-in home, so occasional background sounds may occur.

    I share this openly so you can decide if this space feels right for you. If you are looking for a perfectly controlled or silent setting, this may not be the best fit. If you value honesty, transparency, and a relational, grounded presence, you may find this space supportive, nurturing, and conducive to deep embodiment.

    You are always welcome to ask questions before booking.

    Investment: $150 (60 mins)

  • Embodied Advocacy & Community Leadership

    • Explore how embodiment, nervous system regulation, and pleasure can strengthen your capacity to lead, advocate, and organise within communities.

    • Learn practical strategies to remain resilient, present, and effective, while navigating complex social or professional systems.

    • Integrate somatic practices with relational and organisational skills to bring clarity, grounded presence, and influence to your work.

    • Suitable for individuals, community leaders, organisers, and professionals seeking more sustainable, embodied ways to create change.

    Program Details

    • Format: Single workshops (2–3 hours) or multi-session group programs (3–6 weeks)

    • Investment: $75–$150 per participant, depending on duration and format

    • Location: Online or in-person (Melbourne)

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Need more information or have an inquiry?

Making this work available to those who are ready to step in.

I know private coaching is a financial investment, and I want this work to be accessible to those for whom it matters most. Each month, I offer a small number of reduced-fee sessions.

These sessions are intentional, co-created spaces for exploring challenges around sex, intimacy, and embodiment. To ensure each session is meaningful, I ask that you complete a brief set of questions about what you want to focus on and why this work matters to you. This allows me to support those who are ready to engage fully and ensures the time we spend together is valuable for you.

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Aïsha de Barros Lopes, Certified Somatic Sex Coach guiding clients through embodied awareness.
Aïsha de Barros Lopes, Certified Somatic Sex Coach guiding clients through embodied awareness.
Aïsha de Barros Lopes, Certified Somatic Sex Coach guiding clients through embodied awareness.
Aïsha de Barros Lopes, Certified Somatic Sex Coach guiding clients through embodied awareness.
Aïsha de Barros Lopes, Certified Somatic Sex Coach guiding clients through embodied awareness.
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