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View fullsize We often think about sex as something we do. The techniques. The positions. The things we are supposed to know.

But I don't believe deeply fulfilling sex begins there. It begins with the body.

Our erotic lives are shaped by the bodies we live in. B
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View fullsize Most of us didn't choose the beliefs we carry about sex. We inherited them.

And inherited beliefs become lived experiences. They shape the way we relate to our bodies, to intimacy, to pleasure and to how we imagine what is possible.

My work isn't a
View fullsize This is one of the more personal reflections I have written because it speaks to a part of my story I don't often share.

For a long time, I thought anorexia had only changed the way I saw my body. I didn't realise how much it had changed the way I r
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View fullsize How tightly are you clenching your arse?

It sounds like a strange question, but the muscles around your anus are part of your pelvic floor. And like any other muscle, they can respond to what is happening around us.

When my friend and I worked in C
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Aïsha de Barros Lopes

Certified Somatic Sexologist in Melbourne helping individuals and couples explore intimacy, sexuality, and embodied erotic power through a body-led approach.

493 Centre Road, Bentleigh VIC 3204, Australia · Online across Australia.


I acknowledge the Boonwurrung People of the Kulin Nation as the Traditional Custodians of the land on which my work takes place. I pay my respects to Elders past and present.

I recognise that sovereignty has not been ceded, and that this land holds stories, lore and wisdom far older than any system I work within. May this practice be carried out with humility, care and responsibility, and in respect of the ongoing presence, resilience and leadership of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples.

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