— COUPLES WORK · EMBODIED EROTICISM
The Erotic Intensive
A private, full day devoted entirely to your erotic relationship. Melbourne or online, for the couple who wants more than another conversation about their sex life.
Most conversations about sex happen in the gaps of a busy life: a rushed exchange before bed, ninety minutes once a fortnight if you're lucky. The Erotic Intensive gives your erotic relationship something almost nothing else does. Five to six hours of uninterrupted time, together, to actually notice what's happening between you rather than talk about it in theory.
— WHO THIS IS FOR
You have a good relationship, and you want more from it
You like each other. You’re committed to one another. And you want your erotic relationship to have more of a place in your life, rather than being something you keep putting off.
You want to know each other more deeply
To move beyond what you already know about each other and explore the experiences, needs and erotic lives that shape the way you meet in sex and intimacy.
Something has changed, and you want to understand why
Sex doesn't feel quite the way it used to, but you haven't found the words for what has changed. You keep having the same conversations, without really getting somewhere new.
You're ready to give this real time
Not another quick conversation squeezed in between everything else.
A whole day to slow down, pay attention to what is happening between you, and give your erotic relationship the time it actually deserves.
— WHAT WE EXPLORE
Your day is tailored to your relationship. Before we meet, I take the time to understand your experiences, what you want to explore and where you would like the work to take you, then create a curriculum specifically for you.
These are some of the areas we may explore. Your intensive is designed around you, so the work will go deeper into what is most relevant to your relationship.
The Body
What happens in your body when you are intimate with each other, and how you each experience sensation, arousal, closeness and touch.
Giving & Receiving
Exploring what giving, receiving, taking and allowing feel like for each of you.
Sexual Motivations
What sex means to each of you and what you are looking for when you have it, whether that is connection, expression, a particular experience, or something else entirely.
Difference
Exploring where you are different in sex, intimacy, desire and arousal, and how you can meet each other there.
Embodied Consent
Learning to recognise your yes and your no in your body, and communicate that with each other.
Erotic Themes
The experiences and themes that have shaped each of your erotic lives, and how they show up in your relationship.
Sexual Styles
Understanding how each of you experiences and approaches sex.
Erotic Expansion
Exploring what else might be possible in your erotic life, based on what you actually find interesting, pleasurable and meaningful.
— WHAT YOU WILL TAKE WITH YOU
The day is experiential as well as conversational. There is time to talk, practice, pause and notice what is happening rather than trying to get through as much as possible.
A clearer, more embodied understanding of your erotic relationship
Greater awareness of your own responses and your partner's
More language for talking about sex, intimacy and difference
Greater clarity around your sexual differences and preferences
A clearer sense of what you each want to explore
Specific, personalised practices to keep exploring after the day ends
A shared understanding of where you want to take your erotic relationship next
— BEFORE, DURING, AFTER
— BEFORE
The work begins before the intensive
We begin with a private discovery call, followed by an individual reflection from each of you.
I take the time to understand your relationship, your experiences and what you want to explore, then use this to create a tailored curriculum for your day together.
— THE DAY
Five to six hours, Melbourne or online
Your intensive is private and unhurried, with the time to explore what matters to your relationship without trying to fit everything into a standard session.
The day brings together conversation, embodiment and practice, with space to pause, reflect and work with what comes up as we go.
The curriculum is created specifically for you, so the focus is on the areas that are most relevant to your relationship.
— AFTER
Your work continues beyond the intensive
Following the intensive, you’ll receive personalised resources and practices based on the work we have done together.
A few weeks later, we meet for a private 60-minute follow-up session to reflect on what you have noticed since the intensive, what has shifted and what you would like to continue exploring together.
— A BESPOKE EXPERIENCE
The frameworks are there to support the work, not dictate it.
What we spend our time on will depend on what you bring into the room, what we discover together, and what feels most relevant to your relationship.
— INVESTMENT
$6,500
AUD
A private, full-day couples experience. Includes the discovery call, your individual pre-intensive reflections, personalised preparation, the five to six hour intensive, your integration resources, and the 60-minute follow-up.
This is a private, bespoke experience created around your relationship.
— IN PERSON OR ONLINE
Melbourne, In Person
Held privately in a dedicated space in Melbourne.
Online, Across Australia
Available online across Australia, with the same level of preparation, personalisation and follow-up as the in-person experience.
— IS THIS RIGHT FOR YOU?
The Erotic Intensive isn't couples counselling or conflict mediation. If your relationship is in acute crisis or you need immediate support, this probably isn't the right place to start. This is for couples who want to spend real time looking at their sex, intimacy and erotic relationship. You might be feeling disconnected, navigating differences in desire or arousal, or simply want to explore more of what is possible between you. You don't need to have a problem to fix. You just need to want to give this part of your relationship more attention.
— BEGIN
A private day devoted to your erotic relationship.
Begin with a private conversation.